feat(relays): follow the entry Band selector when there is no CAT link

Relay automatic control and the band-change outbound rows both hang off the rig
state, which is right when there IS a rig: changing Band in the entry strip
pushes a QSY, the new state comes back through the CAT callback, and the relays
follow from there — which is why this works for anyone with rig control.

Without a CAT connection nothing is pushed and nothing comes back, so a station
whose rig OpsLog does not control changed band and the antenna switch sat
exactly where it was. Reported as automatic control not working; it was never
told the band had changed.

The entry selector now says so itself, but only when the CAT push did not
happen, and never when the band or frequency lock is on: a lock means the entry
is deliberately decoupled from the rig, and moving an antenna to match a contact
logged from last year is worse than doing nothing.

The frequency is passed as unknown on that path — a band selector gives a band
and nothing else, and rules written on a frequency RANGE are left alone rather
than evaluated against a made-up dial reading.

The de-duplication of "is this a new band" is now shared by both sources, so a
station that has both does not command its switch twice for one QSY.

Also: the same credit line as the QSL e-mail now closes the default recording
e-mail body, on the same terms — a default in the template, so a stored one is
untouched.

app.go

@@ -8771,7 +8771,11 @@ func (a *App) NetDeactivate(id int64) (int64, error) {
 
 const (
 	defaultEmailSubject = "Our QSO recording — {CALL}"
-	defaultEmailBody    = "Hi,\n\nGreat to work you! Please find attached the audio recording of our QSO.\n\n{DATE}  ·  {BAND}  ·  {MODE}\n\n73,\n{MYCALL}"
+	// Same credit line as the QSL e-mail, and for the same reason it lives in the
+	// template rather than being appended at send time: it is a default, so an
+	// operator deletes it once, and one who already saved their own body never
+	// sees it — a stored template is returned verbatim.
+	defaultEmailBody = "Hi,\n\nGreat to work you! Please find attached the audio recording of our QSO.\n\n{DATE}  ·  {BAND}  ·  {MODE}\n\n73,\n{MYCALL}\n\n" + qslCredit
 )
 
 // EmailSettings is the user's SMTP config + auto-send + message templates.