fix(qso list): the grid followed the upload, not the log

Reported as delayed auto-upload breaking Recent QSOs. It does not — the grid was
waiting on the upload for its news.

Nothing reloaded the list on qso:logged. The entry form calls refresh() itself
after AddQSO, so a QSO TYPED in OpsLog always appeared; a QSO logged from
anywhere else — WSJT-X or MSHV over UDP, JTAlert, NET Control, an offline replay
— reached the grid only when something else reloaded it, and the something else
was extsvc:uploaded. With auto-upload set to immediate that arrives a second
later and hides the gap completely.

Set a service to delayed and the QSO appeared one to two minutes late; set it to
upload on close and not until the next launch. So the very thing deferring an
upload exists for — correcting a contact before it goes out — was impossible,
because there was nothing on screen to correct.

The list now follows the log, on the same debounced path the upload events
already use: qso:logged fires twice per contact (insert, then award refs) and a
contest run fires it every few seconds.

changelog.json

@@ -3,10 +3,12 @@
     "version": "0.25.6",
     "date": "",
     "en": [
-      "Right-click: update the US county of the selected contacts from the ULS database, replacing a county since renamed or abolished."
+      "Right-click: update the US county of the selected contacts from the ULS database, replacing a county since renamed or abolished.",
+      "A QSO logged from WSJT-X, MSHV or a net now appears in Recent QSOs at once, instead of waiting for a delayed auto-upload to send it."
     ],
     "fr": [
-      "Clic droit : mettre à jour le comté US des contacts sélectionnés depuis la base ULS, pour remplacer un comté renommé ou supprimé."
+      "Clic droit : mettre à jour le comté US des contacts sélectionnés depuis la base ULS, pour remplacer un comté renommé ou supprimé.",
+      "Un QSO logué depuis WSJT-X, MSHV ou un net apparaît aussitôt dans les QSO récents, sans attendre l’envoi d’un upload automatique différé."
     ]
   },
   {