feat: choose how dates are displayed (Standard / French / US)

Settings → General, beside the language. An operator reading 2026-07-30 as the
7th of the 30th month is reading their own log wrongly, and that is a display
problem.

Storage stays ISO/ADIF, deliberately and permanently: it is what ADIF
specifies, it sorts correctly as text, and a stored format that followed a UI
preference would make the log unreadable the day the preference changed. Exports
and uploads are untouched.

Two details that decide whether it actually works:

  - The columns are rebuilt when the format changes. The formatters are captured
    inside AG-Grid's column definitions, so nothing else would notice and the
    table would keep the old format until something forced a rebuild.
  - main.tsx re-reads the choice after the portable prefs are pulled from the
    database. The module reads localStorage at import time, which is BEFORE that
    sync — so a copied data/ folder would have shown ISO until the next launch.

UTC is not part of the choice and never will be: a logbook is kept in UTC, and
showing local time would make the display disagree with the QSO's own record
twice a year.

frontend/src/lib/uiPref.ts

@@ -28,6 +28,7 @@ const PORTABLE_KEYS = [
   'opslog.groupDigitalSlots', // matrix + cluster: all digital modes count as ONE (DXCC-style) instead of per-mode slots
   'opslog.clusterShowFilters', // cluster filter sidebar shown (tab + Main pane)
   'opslog.mapBasemap',    // world map basemap (light / street / satellite)
+  'opslog.dateFormat',    // how dates are DISPLAYED (iso / fr / us); storage stays ISO
   'opslog.mapGreyline',   // world map: grey line (day/night terminator) shown
   'opslog.awardRefSort', 'opslog.awardRefSortDir', // award reference table: sort column and direction
   // Cluster filter selections — restored on reopen.